Here's the email I got from the one i really really really liked after daring to ask about seeing him again:

Matt
Today at 12:21pm
hey i figured youd be pissed if i told you i had plans for the rest of the week but i wasnt lying. i dont feel like going back and forth over txt message im just trying to relax today cuz im not feeling all that great. last night i had soccer and then plans with my sis and didnt get home till late today im babysitting my niece this afternoon and then have plans with my best friend and his family. promised my boys id do happy hour tomorrow and then sat im going out of town all day and overnight. sunday i have no clue when ill get home but ill have family dinner then i need to go to bed early because back to work on monday. so i dont know what to tell you. i dont play games and not into all that im just busy. im really not looking for someone to spend a ton of time with either. you had said from the start you didnt want anything serious and now i feel like your kind of changing your tune. im definitely not ready for anything serious. i still have issues about my ex and im just not ready. i think i might be broke inside a little too because for whatever reason i kind of like spending some time totally alone too and havent really had much chance to do that this week. just laying on the couch and watching tv. whatever. i just feel bad because i feel like you want to be more serious than i do and i definitely like you and like hanging out with you but i also feel bad because i think maybe you like me more than i like you and im not used to being the one that might hurt someone or anything like t hat. its usually me getting hurt. i guess when we first started talking i got the impression you liked dating a bunch of guys and doing your own t hing and i liked that becasue i wasnt looking for someone to get serious with. so im sorry if you pissed at me but i dont know what else to say. we can definitely hang out again if you want it just might not be till like next week sometime but i really dont want anything all that serious right now im just not feeling like im up for it.



ok seriously.... WTF?!?!! see this is why guys get the shit kicked out of them. after all the texts about how much he likes me, how hot i am, etc etc etc this is what he sends me. is it any wonder i don't want to be serious with anyone?
so i sent him a reply that hopefully will
EAT HIM UP INSIDE FOR THE REST OF HIS DAMN LIFE:
Today at 12:44pm
i'm sorry you got spooked. i was just looking for someone to hook up with over the summer and you boasted about having this big sex drive. i thought i lucked out - good hot times with someone i got along well with, nothing too serious, just some fun. but no worries. good luck to ya.